I once played a song by Danny Chan for mom before, then we spent time together watching “An Autumn’s Tale” as well. In this HK romantic drama film, Sam Pang loves trouble 

(Jennifer symbolises trouble/ chabo in cantonese) dearly. 

Pang writes on his bedroom mirror 3 commandments and 5 goals; one goal being "If you want it, go for it", in this case Pang going for his love- Jennifer.